• Person Centred Depression Counselling

    Tempus Counselling is working to the highest ethical standards in line with the “BACP Ethical Framework”

    Depression & Feeling Down Therapy Counselling Bolton Wigan Preston Manchester Lancashire North West

Depression And Feeling Down

Depression counselling is often recommended as a combination treatment plan. Talking therapy can help you identify, address and manage negative, self-defeating thoughts that may affect the way you behave with depression.

We all have times where we feel sad, but depression affects your daily life, making it hard for you to find enjoyment in day-to-day activities. Depression is a mood disorder that can take many forms: some days you may find it impossible to get out of bed, while other days you may feel more able to go about your normal daily tasks.

Living with depression can be incredibly difficult, for both those suffering and those around them. Due to the nature of the condition, however, seeking help can often be delayed.The Person-Centred Approach (PCA) is the opposite of the CBT model. The client is in charge of the sessions.

Carl Rogers, the founder of PCA, has proven that the client as an individual, given certain conditions, can heal and strive to be the person they want to be.

Typical Symptoms

If you have depression, you are likely to have at least five of the following symptoms:

  • you may feel worthless

  • like life isn’t worth living

  • constantly anxious, tearful and worried

  • feel like you can’t concentrate

  • you may feel worthless

  • like life isn’t worth living

  • constantly anxious, tearful and worried

  • feel like you can’t concentrate

  • Indecisive

  • Irritable and intolerant of others

  • You are not getting enough enjoyment out of life

You May Experience

  • Changes in sleeping patterns - broken nights or oversleeping

  • Changes in eating patterns - loss of appetite or overeating

  • Tiredness and a loss of energy

  • Persistent headaches and/or stomach upsets

  • Chronic pain

  • A slower speaking pattern than usual

  • Loss of libido

  • Changes to the menstrual cycle

You May Also

In some circumstances, you might not even notice that you have developed depression, especially if it has been a gradual process over several weeks or months. Sometimes it takes a friend, a family member or a partner to point out that you may have a problem.

  • Neglect hobbies and interests

  • Isolate yourself from friends and family

  • Take part in fewer social activities

  • Notice your productivity falling at work

When is the right time to seek help?

For many, being treated for depression can seem an impossible task, but the sooner help is sought the better. In some cases, the illness can disappear without treatment. This is not always the case however and there is a danger that living with the condition will put significant emotional and physical strain on your health and well-being.

In the initial stages, your GP will look to diagnose the condition. From here our counsellors can help offer you support.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is among the recommended therapies for treating depression. This therapy is based on the premise that the way we behave and think affects the way we feel. People with depression tend to have self-defeating thoughts that can lead to negative behaviour. CBT aims to help them identify and address these negative thoughts.

Rainer

Rainer moved to the UK over 50 years ago, he has been married for 55 years. He is a qualified engineer and has studied several models of psychotherapy.

The need to help people spurred him on to enter the counselling profession. More Info >

Faith

Faith is a qualified counsellor and uses person-centred therapy in online sessions. Faith lives in the Wigan area.

Any work will be confidential, and Faith will build a trusting and safe environment for you to explore any issues and needs you have. More Info >

What our clients say.

” Rainer was a great help in listening to what I had to say, and then, gradually, his comments and prompts guided me to a fair amount of self reflection which helped me to realise that there are always other angles and perspectives to our ‘problems’, and that it was within me, myself, to reflect on and identify and choose to adjust my approach to things and choose ‘positive’ options rather than negative ones that may have become bad habits, which we have probably developed from a ‘tunnelled vision’ perspective. All of this has helped me to get less anxious and stressed with ‘life situations’ and to manage them in a more positive way. “

Person-Centred Counselling, Bolton, Manchester & Lancashire

” Thank you for listening to me and giving me your insights, which have been so useful. Please know I am forever in your debt. Thank You. ”

Person-Centred Counselling, Bolton, Manchester & Lancashire

” Rainer is a wise and gentle man who was a very reassuring person to open up to, he helped me work through my issues and feel more confident moving forward. ”

Person-Centred Counselling, Bolton, Manchester & Lancashire

” I found doing Zoom the best therapy I have had. Think as it was in my own home I could be really comfortable and relax. I think this service via video link would be so beneficial to so many people who may not want to get out of their home or afraid to go to another unknown place. Really I feel it would be a great service after lockdown. I have had several lots of therapy over the years, but this definitely worked the best. Rainer is a really easy person to talk to. Zoom sessions made me much more relaxed and I talked much more freely. Thank you for your time listening to me. ”

Person-Centred Counselling, Bolton, Manchester & Lancashire

” The recent death of my sister in America affected me greatly. I was unable to visit her due to covid and she passed on. I was recommended to Rainer and due to covid and my fibromyalgia and sadness I would not face to go out the house. First I could not master to sign onto Zoom straight away. Rainer telephoned me and guided me. I was very apprehensive at first. Rainer put me at ease and was easy to talk to. Gradually I could unburden my anxiety and my deep sadness which I carried inside me. Rainer helped me to come back to reality. Rainer is a kind and gentle person and I felt comfortable to talk to him. ”

Person-Centred Counselling, Bolton, Manchester & Lancashire